Some of the most significant
messages people deliver to one another often come in just three words.
When spoken or conveyed, those
statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore
relationships that have cooled.
The following three-word phrases
can enrich every relationship.
I'LL BE THERE - Being
there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly
present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are
renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually.
'Being there is at the very core of civility.
I MISS YOU - Perhaps more
marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely
said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells
partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
I RESPECT YOU - Respect is
another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is
a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.
MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT - This
phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed
emotions. The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of
admitting "maybe I'm wrong."
PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many
broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their
mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles
and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong,
which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was
yesterday.
I THANK YOU - Gratitude is
an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good,
close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are
quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the
other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not
have the attitude of gratitude.
COUNT ON ME - "A
friend is one who walks in when others walk out," Loyalty is an essential
ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people.
Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends.
When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on
me."
LET ME HELP - The best of
friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they
can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
I UNDERSTAND YOU - People
become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts
and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you
understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your
relationship.
GO FOR IT - Some of your
friends may be non conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies.
Support them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to
conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no one else has.
I suppose the 3 little words that
you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that
is I
LOVE YOU.
Have
a great day loving yourself and loving your loved ones! C U
