तुझाच भांडखोर नवरा....

एक प्रेम पत्र नवऱ्याने बायकोला लिहिलेले...............

प्रिय श्वेता,

काल सकाळी कामाला निघताना उगाच माझ्याशी कटकट केलीस आणि मी हि त्यावर खूप चिडून तुला नको नको ते बोलून बाहेर पडलो, वाटल होत कि दिवसभरात एखादा कॉल करशील

सॉरी बोलशील नायतर एखादा मेसेज तरी करशील, पण आपल काय मी एक हट्टी आणि तू सात हट्टी, कितीही काही झाल तरी माफी मागायला कधीच कोणी एक पुढे येत नाही. तुला काय

तू बसतेस अबोला घेवून. संध्याकाळी एकदा मेसेज टाईप करायला मोबाईल हातात घेतला पण नंतर विचार केला मी का पुढाकार घेवू नेहमी नेहमी म्हणून नाही पाठवला सॉरी चा मेसेज.

घरी आलो तर तुझा चेहरा फुगलेलाच होता रागाने मी पण म्हंटल जावूदे थोडा वेळात होईल हळू हळू नॉर्मल पण छे जेवताना तुझ्याशी बोलेन म्हणालो तर मुद्दामून मला एकट्यालाच

जेवायला वाढलस आणि मला म्हणालीस कि मी बाहेरून जेवून आली. माझा राग अजून वाढला परत आपल भांडण झाल रात्री. मी पण अर्धवट जेवून उठलो तसाच रागारागाने. बाहेर गेलो

आणि एक सिगरेट पिवून आलो. तोपर्यंत तू चादर डोक्यावर घेवून हॉलमध्ये झोपली होतीस. अजूनच राग वाढला.
आज सकाळी मला ऑफिसच्या वेळेवर मला उठावलस पण नाही आणि स्वत तयारी करून गेलीस कामाला. माझी झाली ऑफिसला दांडी. पण नंतर किचन मध्ये गेलो चहा बनवायला तर

रात्रीच एका माणसाच जेवण बाकी होत. म्हणजे तू स्वताच जेवण बनवल होतास पण मला खोट बोललीस कि मी बाहेरून खावून आली. आणि स्वत उपाशी झोपलीस. i am so sorry

:( श्वेता....... उगाच भांडण ताणल मी. घरात आल्या आल्या हे लेटर तुला मिळालंच आहे, आता एक काम कर किचनमध्ये जा मी चहा बनवून ठेवलाय तो फक्त गरम करून घे आणि

तिथेच समोर तुला आवडतात ती Littile Heart ची biscuits ठेवलेत ते खा. आणि आज तुला पूर्ण आराम मिळण्यासाठी मी तुझ्या आवडीच मला जस जमलाय तस पूर्ण जेवण बनवून

ठेवलंय. मी येतोच थोड्या वेळात....आणि हो सर्व राग आता बाजूला ठेव.

तुझाच
भांडखोर नवरा....

Can you install LOVE ?

Customer : Can you install LOVE?
  
Customer Service Rep: I can do that. 


Customer :I'm not very technical, but I think I am ready to install now. What do I do first?


 Customer Service Rep:The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma'am? 

Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right now.Is it okay to install while they are running? 

Customer Service Rep: What programs are running ma'am? 

Customer: Let me see....I have PASTHURT.EXE, LOWESTEEM.EXE, GRUDGE.EXE, and RESENTMENT,COM running right now. 

Customer Service Rep: No problem. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs. LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE. However, you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT,COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ma'am? 

Customer: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how? 

Customer Service Rep: My pleasure. Go to your Start menu and invoke FORGIVENESS.EXE. Do this as many times as necessary until GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT,COM have been completely erased. 

Customer: Okay, I'm done. LOVE has started installing itself automatically. Is that normal? 

Customer Service Rep: Yes it is. You should receive a message that says it will reinstall for the life of your HEART. Do you see that message? 

Customer: Yes I do. Is it completely installed?
  
Customer Service Rep: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other HEARTS in order to get the upgrades. 

Customer: Oops...I have an error message already. What should I do? 

Customer Service Rep: What does the message say? 

Customer: It says "ERROR 412 - PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENTS". What does that mean? 

Customer Service Rep: Don't worry ma'am, that's a common problem. It means that the LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means you have to "LOVE" your own machine before It can "LOVE"others. 

Customer: So what should I do? 

Customer Service Rep: Can you find the directory called "SELF-ACCEPTANCE"? 

Customer: Yes, I have it. 

Customer Service Rep: Excellent, you are getting good at this. 

Customer: Thank you. 

Customer Service Rep: You're welcome. Click on the following files and then copy them to the "MYHEART" directory: FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, EALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS.DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories, and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back. 

Customer: Got it. Hey! My HEART is filling up with really neat files. SMILE.MPG is playing on my monitor right now and it shows that WARMTH,COM, PEACE.EXE, and CONTENTMENT,COM are copying themselves all over my HEART! 

Customer Service Rep: Then LOVE is installed and running. You should be able to handle it from here. One more thing before I go... 

Customer: Yes? 

Customer Service Rep: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everybody you meet. They will in turn share it with other people and they will return some really neat modules back to you. 

Customer: I will. Thank you for your help.

Bank Pass Book

Piya married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Piya's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook With Rs.1000 deposit amount.

Mother: Piya, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life. When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'

Piya shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.

This was what they did after certain time:

- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage

- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Piya

- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Piya got pregnant

- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted

.... and so on...

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world.... no more love... One day Piya talked to her Mother: 'Mom, we can't stand it anymore.

We agree to divorce.

I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.'

Piya thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She left and went home. When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.

The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Piya.

She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record:

'This is the day I notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.'

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.

"Life is about correcting mistakes."

Whom to Blame?

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned.

She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.


QUESTIONS:

1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER:

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Give Your Best To Relationships

boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her.

The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed. The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.
Moral of the story:
If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent..

This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

Salty Coffee

e met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but being polite, she agreed. 

They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please; let me go home... suddenly he asked the waiter: "would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."

Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously: why do you have this fetish? 

He replied: "when I was a little boy, I lived near the sea, I liked
playing in the sea, and I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who still live there".

While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart.

A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home..

Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him!

Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life...

And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee.

Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our
communication!

I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I had promised not to lie to you for anything...

Now I'm dying, I'm afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste... But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again".

Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?
It's sweet. She replied.

Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive
Not 2 c but understands
Not 2 hear but 2 listen
Not 2 let go but HOLD ON!!!!
What makes a person so rich? Some say money and some say health, but for me it is friendship, that carries insurmountable wealth.